A Tale of Two Traditions

In Singapore's vibrant multicultural wedding scene, henna is a staple for both Malay and Indian brides. While they share the same medium (natural henna paste), the styles, symbolism, and ceremonies differ significantly.

If you are a bride-to-be—or attending a cross-cultural wedding—here is a guide to appreciating the nuances of each style.

Malay Wedding Henna (Berinai)

For Malay weddings, the henna ceremony is known as the Malam Berinai.

• Design Style: Traditionally, Malay henna was simple—often just capping the fingertips (solid red tips) and a circle on the palm. However, modern Malay brides now opt for intricate floral designs.
• Focal Point: The designs often feature fewer human figures and focus heavily on floral and vine motifs, respecting Islamic artistic traditions which avoid depicting sentient beings.
• The "Red" Look: Many Malay brides prefer "Inai Merah" (commercial cones) that give an instant bright cherry-red stain, matching their songket outfits.

Indian Wedding Henna (Mehendi)

In Indian weddings, the Mehendi Ceremony is a major pre-wedding event full of music and dance.

• Design Style: Indian designs are known for their density and complexity. They often cover the full arm (up to the elbow) and feet (up to the ankles).
• Hidden Symbols: A fun tradition is to hide the groom's name or initials within the intricate pattern. The groom has to find it on the wedding night!
• Motifs: You will see peacocks (beauty), paisleys (fertility), mandalas (universe), and sometimes bride/groom portraits depicted in the art.
• Natural Stain: Indian brides typically prioritize natural henna which matures into a deep, rich mahogany/burgundy color over 48 hours.

Fusion Styles in Singapore

Singaporean brides are increasingly blending these styles. We see:

1. White Henna: A modern trend popular in both communities for engagement parties or ROM ceremonies.
2. Mandala Centers: The Indian mandala palm design with Malay-style floral fingers.
3. Minimalist: Both cultures are seeing a shift towards "less is more"—breathable designs with open spaces.

Which Style Should You Choose?

Ultimately, it comes down to personal preference and your outfit.

• Wearing a heavy Lehenga or Songket? Go for intricate, heavy designs to balance the look.
• Wearing a white gown or modern lace dress? Choose minimalist, jewelry-style henna or White Henna.

At Henna By Dini, we specialize in both traditional purity and modern fusion.

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